- But once you've learned to be lonely
And lonely is the only thing you've known
It begins to feel like home
It becomes your comfort zone
Once you've learned to be without someone
And settle for the silence of an empty room
Oh,it changes you
There's a lot you have to undo
Once you've learned to be lonely
Lonely is doing things yourself without asking for help, because you've become so used to having to.
Lonely is taking care of your eight month old with only the help of your six year old less than a week after galbladder surgery.
- It becomes a habit of the heart
To be afraid and even start
To try and love again
Lonely is not believeing in Soul Mates.
Lonely is not being afraid of being completely alone when the children grow up, it's knowing you will be alone.
I'm really not as down as this post sounds. This is just some stuff that's been accumulating and needed to come out.
13 comments:
don't you EVER quit believing in soulmates!!
Tc
hugs ((( )))
That is a song I have always liked too...
Sorry you are down...
Isn't it odd how, when we're down, we listen to music that only makes it worse?
I hope the vacation helps. :)
I felt that way with my ex... many times.
I hope you get over this hump, darlin'... :)
Kat, I'm sorry you're feeling down. I hope there's a transition from lonely to solice and perhaps companionship. But the most important thing is to enjoy time with yourself above all else.
In the meantime, I think I may have just the little pick me up you need. C'mon over. Bring your friends too. :)
Hope things pick up for you soon. All the best.
I don't know the song, but the lyrics are fab. I know how easy it is to fall into being by yourself and it becomes a habit. Even when someone IS there to help, you don't ask for it, you just do it by yourself. It alters your perception of the world around you and the loneliness becomes more familiar than your lover. I understand where you're coming from.
hmm. much thought this will put me in.
I am not a big country music fan.. but those lyrics OYE how great are they?? Fantastic words i tell you.
I don't really know what to say.. nothing will make it 'better' on my end, of that i am certain. And I am going to e-mail you something later (don't really want it in here)... but just know that there are a few of us out here that would be there is a heartbeat if we could. And a few (like Bubbles) that are there.
I know it's no hunk of burning desire... but that is what cabanna boys are for right?? hehe ;)
Well I have to agree with TC on this and Exmichra too! All you need to do is ask...
The part about having to take care of the baby with no help after surgery really struck a sore chord for me too. I hope things get better soon!
((hug)) I am sorry you are feeling down hon.
Hello dear Kat,
I've sometimes missed the line that separates lonely from alone, but what I know is this. When you wake up in the morning, take a deep breath and wonder where today might lead, know the you who will come through the hours till you lie in bed again, know who this person is who does it anyway.
Brave.
Smooches & hugs,
GG xo
Oh my lord!! The guy in Reba's video is CUTE!!!
I'll wear my apron for him any day. You'll tell him that for me, wontcha??!
GG x
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