Ok, so being sick has given me plenty of time to reflect on stuff. Some of it meaningless (see last post), some of it rather intuitive. I have figured out that I mostly take people as they are. I'm not saying I'm perfect at it, but when I go into a friendship/relationship whatever I take the good, the bad, and even occasionally the ugly all together as part of that person. That isn't always as good a thing as you would think. I am finding out that it can be used against you. I feel too much too fast. I've been told I can be a rather intense person.
Did you know, I'm naive? Seriously. Not only am I naive, but I'm aware of being naive and can't do a damn thing about it. Now being naive isn't necessarily a bad thing, unless it is used against you. Deliberately. What kind of person does that?
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Only a truly evil person would use that against you deliberately. I know, I've got the naive thing going on too. I trust way more than I should. But I can't imagine being any other way so....
kat, I feel the same way many times. It's so hard to stay open and accepting of people when that happens. A lot of people can't deal with my "intensity" either because I'm very open and kind of expect that in return. I agree with k.l. above about the kind of person who abuses the trust of others. It's not a nice thing to do. Do you want me to put a hex on them? ;-)
Its amazing just how many people will deliberately use naivity against you. Im a bit the same, i sorta think everyone will be good like me, and i am continually reminded that there are peop who arent at all good, or even sometimes good. What kind of person does that? Asses!!
Hope you are feeling better now.
I can so relate...really! You want to accept people for who and what they are and hope in return they do the same for you - and if they're self-absorbed narcissists, they are incapable. But you know my story, your mileage may vary, so to speak...
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